Finished Ephesians!

By God’s grace, I have finished preaching through Ephesians. It has been exhausting, as Paul is always exhausting (since it is always difficult to know what to omit). I have now started on Daniel, and hope to make it a fairly short series (about 16 or 17 messages, far fewer than Ephesians’ 56 sermons). Anyway, here is an index of all the Ephesians sermons.

Introduction to Ephesians

Chapter 1

Dear Ephesians (1:1-2); God’s Plan (1:3-6); Redeemed By the Blood of the Lamb (1:7-8a); The Mystery of Christ (1:8b-10); God’s Powerful Plan (1:11-12); Sealed and Guaranteed (1:13-14); That You May Know God (1:15-19); God’s Power For Us (1:20-23)

Chapter 2

What’s Your Problem? (2:1-3); But God Made Us Alive (2:4-7); The Gift of God’s Grace (2:8-10); Brought Near By the Blood of Christ (2:11-13); Law and Peace (2:14-16); Peace Leading to God (2:17-18 ); You Belong (2:19-22)

Chapter 3

A Mystery Revealed (3:1-6); Grace and Humility (3:7-8a); Our Audience (3:8b-13); God’s Power In You (3:14-16); Filled With the Love of Christ (3:17-19), audio; Soli Deo Gloria (3:20-21), audio;

Chapter 4

Indicative and Imperative (4:1-2), audio; Walk Worthy of the Calling (4:1-3), audio; One God, One Church (4:4-6), audio; Use Your Gifts! (4:7-10); The Purpose of Ministers (4:11-13); Growth in Truth and Love (4:14-16), audio; What We Were (4:17-19), audio; What You Are (4:20-24), audio; Speaking the Truth (4:25), audio; Anger (4:26), audio; Do Not Give the Devil a Foothold (4:27), audio; Don’t Steal, But Work (4:28 ); Every Last Word (4:29), audio; Do Not Grieve the Holy Spirit (4:30), audio; Not Anger, But Forgiveness (4:31-32)

Chapter 5

Like Father, Like Children (5:1-2); No Impurity (5:3-5); Empty Words and Peer Pressure (5:6-7); Awake, O Child of Light! (5:8-14); Filled With What? (5:15-20); Submission? What’s That? (5:21-24); Husbands, Love Your Wives! (5:25-27), audio; Marriage and Church (5:28-33), audio;

Chapter 6

Children, Obey Your Parents (6:1-3), audio; Parenting: Nurture, Not Exasperation (6:4), audio; How Shall We Then Work? (6:5-9), audio; The Full Armor of God (6:10-13)audio; Truth as a Belt (6:14a), audio; Breastplate of Righteousness (6:14b)audio; Readiness of the Gospel (6:15), audio; Shield of Faith (6:16), audio; Helmet of Salvation (6:17), audio; Pray in the Spirit (6:18-20)audio; Final Greetings (6:21-24), audio

Final Greetings

Ephesians 6:21-24


Audio Version

One Peanuts cartoon shows Linus and Charlie Brown talking together, and they are talking about the Bible. Linus is talking about Paul’s letters, and he says that it always feels strange reading Paul’s letters, since it feels like he is reading someone else’s mail. It certainly does feel that way when we hear from Paul’s letters about people we don’t know very well, like this Tychicus. However, there are lessons we can learn from Tychicus, as well as from the final benediction. Final greetings often sum up the message of the whole letter. So we also will reflect on the message of Ephesians as a whole, now that we have gone through the entire letter.

Firstly, what do we learn from Tychicus? From the four other times his name is mentioned in the Bible, we learn these important facts: Tychicus was in Ephesus on one of Paul’s missionary journeys, and was quite possibly one of Paul’s first converts. Tychicus was from Ephesus itself, and was therefore known to the other believers in Ephesus. Secondly, Tychicus was one of two people Paul took with him on his third missionary journey (the other being Trophimus). Therefore, Tychicus was a fellow missionary with Paul. He went through the same trials that Paul went through. He was someone as close as a brother to Paul. He never abandoned Paul like John Mark did. Therefore, he earned Paul’s undying love and trust. Tychicus was almost certainly the one who carried this letter to the Ephesians, and might even have been involved in writing down what Paul wanted to say. Paul also sent Tychicus to relieve Timothy and Titus successively. So, Tychicus was a very versatile worker. Paul could send this jack of all trades anywhere to do anything. He was therefore a right hand man to Paul. No wonder Paul calls him “the dear brother and faithful servant.” I suspect that when Paul told the Ephesians that Tychicus will tell them everything, that that even includes some kind of explanation of what Paul meant in this letter. Certainly, it also included a description of how Paul was doing, and what Paul was doing. At the very least, encouragement was necessary, since the Ephesians had heard that Paul was in prison. They needed to know how Paul was doing in prison.

So, how do we evaluate Tychicus? Certainly, Tychicus was essential to Paul’s ministry. He was kind of quiet. He didn’t write anything that has his name on it, even though he may have been involved in writing Ephesians and Colossians. He was a courier for the Word of God. He carried the Word of God. This shows us that everyone has their part to play. If Tychicus had not done what God had called him to do, then the Ephesians Christians would never have heard from Paul. We would have lost this letter and Colossians, if not for Tychicus. Tychicus might not even have been aware of the fact that this was an inspired writing. And yet, he carried it. He did his small part for the kingdom of God. And we find out that it is not so small after all. In fact, there are no small, insignificant callings in the body of Christ. Take motherhood, for instance, appropriate on Mother’s Day. Many people today think that a career is much more important than being a mother. I would argue that Scripture states that a mother’s most important job is to be a mother. But it is not really a job, after all. It is a calling. If you are a mother, it is because God has called you to be a mother. You have God’s own blessing on your motherhood. You were meant to be a mother. It didn’t somehow happen by accident. You know, one of the Ten Commandments is about honoring parents, and if God wants parents and parenting honored, then so should we honor our parents, and we should also honor parenting itself. Let no one despise motherhood. Let no one value a career over motherhood if they are in fact mothers. But the example of Tychicus applies to all honorable callings. If God has called you to do a task, then it doesn’t matter how small or insignificant you think it is, it is not small or insignificant. If you are taking out the garbage,you should do that to the glory of God. If you go to school, you should do that to the glory of God. If you can find a way to help other Christians exercise their spiritual gifts, then that is certainly to the glory of God. In fact, it is in those small things that the glory of God is most important, because it s the small things that take up the majority of our lives. And God cares about how we do them.

Moving on to the benediction, we can see four words that help us summarize the message of Ephesians. Those four words are peace, love, faith and grace. We’ll start with grace. Paul took great pains in the first chapter and a half to talk about the fact that we are saved by grace. We cannot even take any credit for the faith which God gives us. Salvation is of God, and from God. Of course, we are to respond to this great gift of salvation by doing those good deeds which we were predestined to do. But God gets all the glory for our salvation. Then, in chapter 2, verse 11 through chapter 3, Paul tells us about the peace we have with God that leads to the peace we have with one another. He tells us how those two aspects of peace are related. Peace with God results in peace with fellow believers. Then in chapter 4 through the first part of chapter 6, we see how we are to love one another. We are to imitate God, seeking unity in the body of Christ, submitting as we ought to those in authority over us, and loving those committed to our care as Jesus Christ loves us. Then, in the armor passage, we are called to faith. In faith are we to stand against the devil and against his schemes. So, then we can see that these four words: grace, peace, love, and faith are a summary of what Paul wants to tell us in Ephesians. These words all operate in the context of the church, which is the one great theme of Ephesians. Ephesians is about the body of Christ. In a way, it is also fitting that we remember Pentecost in this final sermon on Ephesians, since it was on Pentecost that God established the abiding presence of the Holy Spirit in power with His church.

So, in considering grace, peace, love, and faith in the context of the church, we have to ask these very important questions: how important is the church to you? It was the early church father Cyprian of Carthage who once said that you cannot have God as your Father without having the church as your mother. John Calvin said the same thing. On Mother’s Day, do you remember that the church is your spiritual mother? Do you remember that it is the church that nurses you with spiritual milk? Do you remember that it is the church that eventually gives you spiritual meat from the Word of God? You might remember that the fifth commandment tells us to honor our father and our mother. Included in that commandment is the command to honor our spiritual Father, who is God Almighty, and to honor our spiritual mother, the church. It is not honoring to your spiritual mother to neglect the attendance of weekly worship, or any other opportunity to fellowship with God’s people and to learn from God’s Word. We should desire to come to every service or Bible study that the church offers. How about the evening worship service? That is a time when the church wants to feed you. Where is your hunger? If your children are not hungry, do you not begin to worry about their health? In the same way, if you do not hunger for the Word of God with every fiber of your spiritual being, then the church starts to worry about you. Come to the feast morning and night. There is no real reason why we all cannot come to the evening service, is there? Honor your spiritual mother church by coming whenever she offers food. She wants to bless you, not to burden you. She wants you to feel the blessing of beginning and ending the Lord’s Day in worship of God, and in hearing from Him. She wants you to grow as much as you can by eating all that you can. And by the way, there is no such thing as gluttony of eating the Word of God too much. You can never have too much.

You will hear about grace, peace, love, and faith in the church. You will hear about Jesus Christ as the answer to our spiritual problem of sin and spiritual death. You will hear about everything God has done in the pages of the Bible, the whole counsel of God. We should strive to want to hear the whole counsel of God.

So that is Paul’s message. God has given grace to us in order that we might have peace. As the letter began with grace and peace, so also does it end with grace and peace. This results in our love for God and our love for one another. And in this way, our faith grows and grows, as we hear about all the things that God has done for us. So Paul says farewell to us for a while, until we look at another one of his letters. But it is only the beginning for us to put into practice what Paul has told us, what God has told us through Paul.

Pray in the Spirit

Ephesians 6:18-20


Audio Version

A man took his small son with him to town one day to run some errands. When lunch time arrived, the two of them went to a familiar cafe for a sandwich. The father sat down on one of the stools at the counter and lifted the boy up to the seat beside him. They ordered lunch, and when the waiter brought the food, the father said, “Son, we’ll just have a silent prayer.” Dad got through praying first and waited for the boy to finish his prayer, but his son just sat with his head bowed for an unusually long time. When the son finally looked up, his father asked him, “What in the world were you praying about all that time?” With the innocence and honesty of a child, he replied, “How do I know? It was a silent prayer.” Certainly, this is a good example of how not to pray! Paul is going to tell us about how to pray. Prayer is one of the means of grace. And it is so important to us, that, in effect, Paul tells us that the entire armor of God has to go on with prayer. It is with prayer that we buckle that truth around our waists. It is with prayer that we receive that breastplate or righteousness to put on our chests. It is with prayer that we put on that readiness of the Gospel of peace. It is with prayer that we take up that shield of faith. It is with prayer that we fasten on that helmet of salvation. It is with prayer that we take up the sword of the Spirit. Prayer is not one of the pieces of the armor of God. Rather, it is the way in which we put on all the armor of God. This is really one of the most comprehensive statements about prayer in the entire Bible. It tells us how to pray, when to pray, what to pray, and for whom to pray. Let’s take these one at a time.

Firstly, we are to pray in the Spirit. This is how we are to pray. Just as the Sword is the Sword of the Spirit, so are we to pray in the Spirit. What does this mean? It means that we recognize that the Holy Spirit is the one who prays our prayers to God. The Holy Spirit intercedes for us with groaning too deep for words. When our prayers ascend to God like the incense did in the Old Testament, it is the Holy Spirit who purifies our prayers, takes out that sin from our prayers, and presents the purified result to the Father. So it means recognizing that the Holy Spirit is our Comforter.

It also means that we pray for God’s will to be done, since it is the Holy Spirit who accomplishes the will of God. So often we pray that our will be done, instead of God’s will. We pray to God with a laundry list of things that need to be done, or things that need to be ours. Instead, we should remember the helpful acronym ACTS. A stands for adoration. We adore God in our prayers. We praise Him for who He is, and for what He has done. C stands for confession. We must confess our sins to God if we expect Him to hear us. It is better to pray for the forgiveness of sins right after you praise God for who He is, since praising God for who He is reminds us of how far short we fall. And it is good to confess sins before you ask God to give you anything. I fear that we oftentimes tack on our request for the forgiveness of sins at the very end of our prayer, as if it is an afterthought. There is a reasonable order to these things. That is not to say that you have to pray this way every time. However, we need to think about how we pray, and not rush into things. Well, after we have confessed our sins, then we thank God for His blessings. That is what the T in ACTS means. Thanksgiving is so important. We must be grateful to God for all He has done, and for all He has given us. Again, we usually give a long list of things we want from God without giving God thanks for what He has given us. Our prayers often sound a lot like Anne’s prayer in Anne of Green Gables: “Gracious Heavenly Father, I thank Thee for the White Way of Delight and the Lake of Shining Waters and Bonny and the Snow Queen. I’m really extremely grateful for them. And that’s all the blessings I can think of just now to thank Thee for. As for the things I want, they’re so numerous that it would take a great deal of time to name them all, so I will only mention the two most important. Please let me stay at Green Gables; and please let me be good-looking when I grow up. I remain, Yours respectfully, Anne Shirley.” Another great example of how not to pray! And so, rather than pray selfishly, we should pray as God has taught us to pray. We should pray in the Spirit.

We should also pray with great vigilance. Paul tells us to be alert when we pray. Oftentimes, we think of prayer as a thing to do when we’re tired. And, since we usually close our eyes to pray, that’s the next thing to a nice long nap! We should rather be awake and give all due diligence to our prayers. When Martin Luther’s puppy happened to be at the table, he looked for a morsel from his master, and watched with open mouth and motionless eyes; he (Martin Luther) said, ‘Oh, if I could only pray the way this dog watches the meat! All his thoughts are concentrated on the piece of meat. Otherwise he has no thought, wish or hope.” I have said this before, but it bears repeating. You can pray with your eyes open. This means that you can pray when you are driving your car or tractor. What a great way to use all of that time! Yes, you do need to pay attention to what you are doing. However, most people can have a radio going on while they drive. If you can have a radio going on, then you can also pray. So, the “how” of praying has to do with praying in the Spirit, and praying with great vigilance.

The second thing we need to know is when to pray. Paul says to pray on all occasions. Then a little later he says that we are always to keep on praying. Everyone knows how to pray when they are in danger, or when the stress level is as high as it seems possible to have. Anyone can pray in that kind of situation. However, are we so quick to pray when something good happens? Are we quick to pray when things are peaceful and quiet? Are we quick to pray when small irritations come our way? The fact is that we need to be in a praying frame of mind all the time. One author put it this way: we should lift up our hearts to heaven, and keep them there so that we can always run to our Heavenly Father and pray to Him. Certainly, as John Newton said, “He who runs from God in the morning will scarcely find Him the rest of the day.” Stay close to God all the day. You will find that temptation has much less hold over you. And you will find it easier and more fulfilling to pray to God in this way. So, we are to pray in the Spirit, and we are to pray all the time. Of course, we don’t have to be in actual prayer every minute. However, we are to have that praying frame of mind.

Thirdly, we are to pray all kinds of prayers. As we have seen, we should pray praise to God, confession to God, thanks to God, and supplication to God. It is not wrong to pray for the things you want, though it is far better to pray for the things you really need. Our wants and our needs are not the same things. We want what we need, but we certainly don’t need all the things we want! What do we really need? Physically, we need food, clothing, shelter, and transportation. Spiritually, we need Jesus. Those are our needs. Everything else, and I mean everything else, is something that we want rather than need. We need to be content when God gives us everything we need, even if that doesn’t mean we have everything we want. Still, we are to pray all kinds of prayers. No kind of prayer is to be ignored.

Fourthly, we are to pray for all the saints. This is as broad as the church itself in all parts of the world. Pray for those saints you know by name. (And, by the way, the word “saints” here means Christians, not first-class citizens of the kingdom of God, as opposed to second-class citizens). Anyway, pray for those saints you know by name. Then pray for all those saints you do not know by name. Pray for saints in other countries. Pray for the persecuted church. Pray for new believers. Pray for missionaries and pastors. Notice here that Paul even requests the Ephesians to pray for him! It is most instructive to see what Paul asks the Ephesians to pray for. He doesn’t ask them to pray for an easy life, free of pain. He asks them to pray for boldness so that the Gospel will go forth. He wants the Ephesians to pray that evangelism will happen! Paul wants the Ephesians to pray that he will not fear man, but only God. Notice something very striking here. Paul calls himself an ambassador in chains. That is almost a contradiction in terms. In normal societies, ambassadors have diplomatic immunity. Countries need to be able to talk to each other, so most countries grant diplomatic immunity to ambassadors from other countries. This is very important to the right relationship of countries. However, Paul does not have diplomatic immunity! And he is an ambassador for the greatest kingdom that has ever been or ever will be! He is ambassador for the King of kings and Lord of lords. And yet, he is in chains! So also we cannot expect such diplomatic immunity. There is a price to pay for sharing the Gospel. And we are to be willing to pay that price. So, we are to pray in the Spirit and with great vigilance. We are to pray all the time. We are to pray all kinds of prayers. And we are to pray for all the saints.

I will close with this illustration of the power of prayer. Dr. Helen Roseveare, missionary to Zaire, told the following story. “A mother at our mission station died after giving birth to a premature baby. We tried to improvise an incubator to keep the infant alive, but the only hot water bottle we had was beyond repair. So we asked the children to pray for the baby and for her sister. One of the girls responded. ‘Dear God, please send a hot water bottle today. Tomorrow will be too late because by then the baby will be dead. And dear Lord, send a doll for the sister so she won’t feel so lonely.’ That afternoon a large package arrived from England. The children watched eagerly as we opened it. Much to their surprise, under some clothing was a hot water bottle! Immediately the girl who had prayed so earnestly started to dig deeper, exclaiming, ‘If God sent that, I’m sure He also sent a doll!’ And she was right! The heavenly Father knew in advance of that child’s sincere requests, and 5 months earlier He had led a ladies’ group to include both of those specific articles.” So pray, dear brothers and sisters!